We are not compatible

As I was going through our adoption paperwork, I came across the results of the couple's personality test we had to do. It was a 300 question test we had to take to test our compatibility. It made me laugh once again. (some of you have maybe heard about it because Robb likes to share the results) Read on and you'll know why!

These two profiles show both similarities and differences in these individuals' personalities. Three of the scale scores are very similar and four are quite dissimilar. There is a considerable difference between their scores on the Nervous scale. The relationship may be adversely affected unless Teresa is able to counteract and reduce Robb's level of stress or tension. (WHAT?) Robb and Teresa have similar scores on the Active-Social scale. Compatibility on this scale is an important factor in the success of most relationships. The similarity in this couple's scores is a positive sign. (oh good!) The difference between their scores on the Sympathetic scale suggests that Robb may need more understanding and acceptance from Teresa. Improvement in this regard will enhance their compatibility. (are you kidding me?) The couple's scores differ on the Subjective scale, Robb is more objective, and Teresa's judgment and logic are somewhat more likely governed by feelings or emotional influences. (this is no surprise) Their scores on the Self-Disciplined scale are quite different. This difference suggests that Robb's tendencies to be more impulsive and disorganized than Teresa may cause serious problems in the relationship and may be difficult for Teresa to cope with. (I think I can handle it)

Well, there you have it. Aren't you all surprised that we have been married for 11 1/2 years and have no plans of separating? Luckily or social worker didn't take the results very seriously! I told her it was no surprise that Robb and I are VERY DIFFERENT. That doesn't mean that we aren't compatible. Obviously we have figured out how to live with each other. :-)