Tuesday, April 15, 2008

You Know You're An Adoptive Parent When...

You Know You're An Adoptive Parent When . . .

1. The fact that there are 143 million children without a parent to kiss them goodnight has made you lose sleep. 2. You realize DNA has nothing to do with love and family. 3. You can't watch Adoption Stories on TLC without sobbing. 4. The fact that, if 7% of Christians adopted 1 child there would be no orphans in the world, is convicting to you. 5. You spend free time surfing blogs about families who have experienced the blessing of adoption. 6. It drives you crazy when people ask you about adopted child's 'real' parents. 7. You have ever been 'pregnant' with your adoptive child longer than it takes an elephant to give birth. (2 years!) 8. You had no idea how you would afford to adopt but stepped out in faith anyway, knowing where God calls you He will provide. 9. You have ever taken an airplane ride half-way around the world with a child you just met. 10. You believe God's heart is for adoption. 11. You realize that welcoming a child into your heart and family is one of the most important legacies you could ever leave on this earth. 12. You know what the word 'Dossier' means, and you can actually pronounce it! 13. You have welcomed a social worker into the most private parts of your life. 14. You shudder when people say your child is so lucky that you adopted them, knowing full well you are the blessed one to have him or her in your life.
-Author unknown

11 comments:

Steffie B. said...

so very, very true! ;)

Anonymous said...

From one adoptive parent to another - well said! Praying that you all and Ruby are joined together soon!

Jen said...

AMEN!!! Hoping you get your referral very, very soon!!!

Nikki said...

Ruby is going to be extremly lucky to have great parents and family to love her unconditionally. Praying for you to get your referral very soon.

Heidi Jo Comes said...

there is a time for everything. and even though the waiting is excruciating, you know that it is for a purpose. for the preparation of your hearts, the hearts of your kids, and possibly the hearts of others in your life.

in His time...

Brad and Fran Hoagland said...

This is all so very true. And to think, like for us, 1 short year ago, adoption wasnt even on our minds. How much we have changed in less than 1 year, following Gods call.

Amber said...

This is off the subject...
But I want to see more pictures of your new house!!

Gwen Oatsvall said...

i love this ... i posted it a while back and think everyone is so true ... i love your Habakkuk verse on the side ... someone sent it to me while I was waiting to travel to get Maggie ... I read it everyday knowing the Lord's timing is perfect ... thanks for stopping by ... i love meeting new adoptive parents ... there is strength in our numbers ... I will pray for your precious one in Ethiopia ... I long to start my Ethiopia adoption, but am waiting on the Lord's timing .... talk to ya soon ...

Anonymous said...

The Lord has and will bless your family for your willingness to reach out beyond your own lives to include another person in your family. I wish I had had the faith and conviction you and Robb have when I was a young mother!

Tracy said...

That was amazing Teresa!!

Hang in there!!!

Mom to many said...

Love this - how true it is.